History has thought that the great winners usually
encountered heart-breaking obstacles before they achieved. They won because
they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.
Trials in life can be tragedies or triumphs, depending on
how we handle them. Triumph don’t come without effort.
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| Life is a beautiful Struggle. |
A biology teacher was teaching his students how a
caterpillar turns into a butterfly. He told the students that in the next
couple of hours, the butterfly would struggle to come out of the cocoon, but no
one should help the butterfly. Then he left.
The students were waiting and it happened. The butterfly
struggled to get out of the cocoon and against the advice of the teacher, one
of the students took pity on it and decided to help the butterfly so it didn’t
have to struggle anymore. But, shortly afterwards, the butterfly died.
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| Struggle Within |
When the teacher returned, he was told what had happened. He
explained to the student that it is a law of nature that the struggle to come
out cocoon actually helps develop and strengthen the butterfly’s wings. By
helping the butterfly, the boy had deprived the butterfly of its struggle the
butterfly died.
So nothing worthwhile in life comes without a struggle. So don't take much care on your loved one thus preventing them to struggle to gain strength.